So, you are in favor of "my guy or the Nazi" voting? I didn't hear a "no", there.
It isn't "loser talk" to recognize the rules that elections run by, or to push back against the "both sides" rhetoric that lets the Overton window drift ever rightward.
Either you show up and vote in every election for the least bad candidate, be they good or great or only "not as bad", or you are doing more harm than good.