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[–] 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Yeah, this is a dynamic that I don't think has happened on my relationships. i've done changes to accommodate my exes but i've never felt sex was used as leverage.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    When I was much younger, I definitely would give in to other's wants more easily than I do now and, looking back, I'm aware it was an effort to appease them more than making myself happy. They didn't do anything wrong and neither did I, but if I could go back in time and say "No" instead, I would.

    Relationships live in a lot of grey areas. That's great that your relationships have been on equal footing in this regard :)

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