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[–] 35 points 5 months ago* (2 children)

This happened many years ago for me. A guy at a party was giving me massive red flags. The final straw came when he outright lied to me and doubled-down on it when I asked if it was true, just to brush it off as a joke later that same day and make fun of me for believing him. I avoided him at every friend get-together afterwards.

A few years later, after I'd moved away, I learned that the rest of the friend group left him too. Turns out he had a habit of trying to hook up with teenage girls and after some event (that I never learned the details of) brought it to light, everybody abandoned him.

God, the vindication felt good.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Now I wonder if the lying to your face behavior is actually connected to attempt statutory rape.

    I'd say you were vindicated when they brushed off what you were saying. That's just shitty behavior that's completely disrespectful and people don't take seriously.

    Im an introvert so I actually don't know how people generally accept that behavior

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