▲ 604 ▼ Sounds about right (lemmy.world) submitted 5 months ago by ickplant@lemmy.world to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] stoly@lemmy.world 16 points 5 months ago (8 children) I wish I could do creative. That sounds fun permalink fedilink source hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] moakley@lemmy.world 17 points 5 months ago (4 children) Even if you can't do it you just do it anyway. Make something genuinely terrible. It's good for you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] stoly@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago (3 children) I usually feel shame that stays with me for weeks or months. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] deathmetaldawgy@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 months ago (1 child) That’s good because good artists (me) also feel this way (I am not a good artist) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 1 point 5 months ago me! (not me 😓) permalink fedilink source parent [–] moakley@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago I've got shame for years. But sometimes I draw something nice. I've actually seen some of my stuff reposted as memes, and that feels like the opposite of shame, whatever that is. Anyway you don't do it for the art or whatever. You do it because it's good for you. permalink fedilink source parent [–] jh29a@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago It might be conceptually sad to some people, but programming something that I don't need works for me permalink fedilink source parent [–] Mesophar@pawb.social 3 points 5 months ago Creative isn't just traditional art and drawing, there's no way you've tried everything creative and everything makes you feel shame after. Poetry, writing, painting miniatures, origami, flower decorating, 3d modeling, programing, crocheting, macrame, pixel art, bead art, stained glass, mozaic, and so much more. I know "don't worry about the end result" doesn't lessen the feeling of shame, but instead focus on something super simple and approachable for a beginner to accomplish in whatever creative endeavor you engage in. Start small, build from there. permalink fedilink source parent [–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 3 points 5 months ago Just make some marks using whatever tools you have. They don't even have to be visually appealing marks permalink fedilink source parent
[–] moakley@lemmy.world 17 points 5 months ago (4 children) Even if you can't do it you just do it anyway. Make something genuinely terrible. It's good for you. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] stoly@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago (3 children) I usually feel shame that stays with me for weeks or months. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] deathmetaldawgy@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 months ago (1 child) That’s good because good artists (me) also feel this way (I am not a good artist) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 1 point 5 months ago me! (not me 😓) permalink fedilink source parent [–] moakley@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago I've got shame for years. But sometimes I draw something nice. I've actually seen some of my stuff reposted as memes, and that feels like the opposite of shame, whatever that is. Anyway you don't do it for the art or whatever. You do it because it's good for you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] stoly@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago (3 children) I usually feel shame that stays with me for weeks or months. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] deathmetaldawgy@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 months ago (1 child) That’s good because good artists (me) also feel this way (I am not a good artist) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 1 point 5 months ago me! (not me 😓) permalink fedilink source parent [–] moakley@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago I've got shame for years. But sometimes I draw something nice. I've actually seen some of my stuff reposted as memes, and that feels like the opposite of shame, whatever that is. Anyway you don't do it for the art or whatever. You do it because it's good for you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] deathmetaldawgy@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 months ago (1 child) That’s good because good artists (me) also feel this way (I am not a good artist) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 1 point 5 months ago me! (not me 😓) permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world 1 point 5 months ago me! (not me 😓) permalink fedilink source parent
[–] moakley@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago I've got shame for years. But sometimes I draw something nice. I've actually seen some of my stuff reposted as memes, and that feels like the opposite of shame, whatever that is. Anyway you don't do it for the art or whatever. You do it because it's good for you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jh29a@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago It might be conceptually sad to some people, but programming something that I don't need works for me permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Mesophar@pawb.social 3 points 5 months ago Creative isn't just traditional art and drawing, there's no way you've tried everything creative and everything makes you feel shame after. Poetry, writing, painting miniatures, origami, flower decorating, 3d modeling, programing, crocheting, macrame, pixel art, bead art, stained glass, mozaic, and so much more. I know "don't worry about the end result" doesn't lessen the feeling of shame, but instead focus on something super simple and approachable for a beginner to accomplish in whatever creative endeavor you engage in. Start small, build from there. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 3 points 5 months ago Just make some marks using whatever tools you have. They don't even have to be visually appealing marks permalink fedilink source parent