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[–] 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

i feel that. i assumed it is an autistic trait ... also theres a trans thing in my life. i like my new name a lot better.

still there are situations, in which i think it's unneccesarry to say my name. especially , when you already have my attention. people pointed to 'removing distance' as a function. i usually like my distance. "hi, kluczyczka." sounds waaay to forward, as if you want to eat me. if you already have my attention, just say "hi". ...

in languages which have strong formality, i tend to use these forms a lot more than others too, this usually uses the family name , which has a nice distance to it? so "hi, ms tchncs.de" would be fine with me.

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