I don't really have much to say here because i don't like the term "woman" for myself ... it feels totally wrong that there are such categories as "men" and "women" in the first place. It's like a whole artificial divide for no fucking reason. People are just fucking dumb. (No insult to you or anything, just a general vent)
Anyways, i think of people more as a "feature vector" and the things that are important to me are efficiency, not being bold/arrogant, and most importantly not being a fucking huge asshole.
Since "men" in today's society is mostly defined as "somebody who is being an asshole intentionally for no fucking reason", well, that's not what i identify as.