While it’s true you see the same behavior on Lemmy sometimes, it’s incomparable to Reddit

you just have not 'found' the communities yet. Lemmy is pretty much just Reddit 2.0 but then with more people that have technological knowledge. Keep in mind there are a lot of people from Reddit on Lemmy (both ones that left Reddit and only use Lemmy and ones that use both). Personally, I have had the displeasure (as you call it) to experience the same ragebait, toxic toxic behavior on Lemmy that is usually on Reddit.

The good thing of Lemmy though, there is no limit on the block-list. So you can block anyone who is being a annoyance.

It’s just insufferable, I don’t know why I keep interacting on that shitty platform.

If it disturbs your peace of mind, leave the comment section. Use RSS for the specific subreddits you regularly visit and keep it at that. This also gives the added benefit: When posts are removed by the user, mod or Reddit itself. You can still visit the page through RSS feed.