I feel like a whole generation of kids are missing out on positive male role models.

Step up, and pass on the good vibes and knowledge

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[–] 20 points 6 months ago* (3 children)

I feel like what a child needs is some sort of close-knit community to interact with daily, not just parents. It could be the extended family, it could be the neighbors, etc. This is how children grew up for most of the history of our species, hell, I'd guess most mothers throughout history didn't know who the father is at all. The idea that a child is raised exclusively by the parents is an extremely novel invention forced upon us by western individualist culture.

Genders or "parental figures" don't actually matter here, what matters is interacting with different people, forming personal relationships with them and learning from their positive traits and behaviors.

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Had that and from personal experience, it didn't work. I perceived them as just that - extended family, not really someone I'd trust like a parent. I learned from them but it wasn't...dunno, personal?

    But other than that, I fully agree that children need more than just parents.

    I do not agree that parental figures don't matter. There is a bond between parents and children that is simply special - however, parents don't have to be bio parents. Insert screenshot from the post, where one of kid's parental figures got filled in by an "outsider".

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    I do not agree that parental figures don’t matter. There is a bond between parents and children that is simply special - however, parents don’t have to be bio parents. Insert screenshot from the post, where one of kid’s parental figures got filled in by an “outsider”.

    Ok, I think I phrased it the wrong way. I don't think it's necessary for a child to have exactly two parents of opposite genders. I think a much healthier way to be brought up is to be parented by a diverse group of people (maybe 5-10), each with their own identities, interests, and skills to learn from.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago

    Parents are key in bringing other trustworthy adults in their kids life. Not having a father or a mother will greatly reduce these opportunities as the life of a single parent is significantly harder and leave less time for socializing with other parents, thus reducing the interactions their kids have with other adults.

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