you know, in any other situation I'd agree but the whole episode was framing this narrative where she gets past that. was just a super weird heel-turn to go from "okay I can fuck a very long-lived parasite without knowing if their host consents" to "okay I can fuck the parasite in Ryker without Ryker consenting even though I see him as my brother" to "a femme presenting host????? THAT'S too far"

and then she was mad and weirdly condescending about it. being upset about the premise is kind of dogshit, after all that