The only way I'll ever have children is through adoption but it seems most guys want biological children.

Most of the guys I met would say that they fear that they wouldn't see an adopted child as theirs which honestly breaks my heart a little.

I did some research and apparently most adoptive parents generally chose that option because the man is infertile, not the other way around.

So it would seem like most men are only contemplating adoption if they're infertile themselves but if their partner is they'll prefer to just get a different girlfriend over adopting kids.

Let me know if you think this is not the case, I want to believe you.

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I'm a guy and I don't want bio kids enough that I went and got snipped nearly a decade ago when I was 22. But I have always wanted to adopt. I just don't see the point in making a new kid when there are any children out there in need of a safe home.

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