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[–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you’re that anti-social why bother with friends at all?

Seems like just you don’t know what you want.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    I'm not quite as bad as the post, but emotions are complicated. I like friends, and I like being invited, even if I might not be able to go.

    I do want to go out to places, but sometimes the distance, timing, proximity to last event, etc make it too much.

    I don't want to fall out of the list of invitees though, as I will want to go at some point in the future. Sometimes it's an event that not going to might be a problem otherwise, even if I'm not up to it, but to maintain invites/friendship it's best to suck it up.

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