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[–] 98 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

I was bored as hell, sitting in a hotel room with literally nothingbto do for three days (waiting to get my passport back from visa processing), so I looked up the phone number of someone I used to know before we moved to opposite ends of the country years ago. I ended up getting an invite to a discord, and we now have two nights per week set aside for gaming together. Not just him, but the others on the discord too, so I'm not as socially isolated anymore.

And when there's no gaming going on, just hanging out in VoIP is still nice. I might be baking stuff in blender or perl, while someone else is painting minifigs or planning a D&D campaign. It's not easy having a social life when I'm a family man with four kids, living in the middle of nowhere with no shared interests with anyone nearby. This is my remedy.

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  • [–] 29 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    looked up the phone number of someone I used to know before we moved to opposite ends of the country

    Your comment reminds of... like... I just realized I haven't really directly talked to my aunts or cousins in China for...

    well the entire time I've been in the US... like nearly 2 decades

    idk why, I never really felt an attachment... don't have much memories of them, I was only 8 when my family left...

    Now it feels too awkward to suddenly call them...

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  • [–] 39 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Call them. Yes, it's probably gonna be awkward, but well worth it.

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  • [–] 15 points 6 months ago

    For that I'm gonna need to make a WeChat account...

    Might need to use a separate phone for opsec purposes 👀 (you know why)

    Feels like too much of a hassle... and like its not like I feel safe to just speak freely...

    Mom and older brother is going back to visit (like right now), and mom told me to not send her any political stuff or she'll block me...

    Like I'm just so used to how things work in the west, I'm gonna have to run every sentence through my brain like can I actually say this and not get them in trouble

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