Yes very true. Body language is super important in conversations like this.

For me what felt strange is that, I am a propnent of sharing household responsibilities between men and women equally. So basically equality despite difference in capability. But then, when it comes to society in general, I don't believe in equal responsibility ie rich and privilegded ppl should have more responsibility than underprivileged. And this makes me feel like a hypocrite you know?

On one example, I am thinking of equality and the other proportionality.

I guess my idealogy is still incomplete.