The Netherlands is pretty bad regarding deportations, but that's not the case for all EU memberstates.
University would be preferable if possible but it doesn't automatically mean you get to live in the EU afterward. You'd probably have to find a (good) job and get married afterward 😔 Probably best to apply for asylum and attend university at the same time maybe, it'll give you options, but there's NGOs that would know better probably 😊