I was maybe 32 the first time I mentioned something on this topic to my spouses dad. I used the term phallus, granted I believe we had been smoking weed around a fire and I ended up having to say it 3 times before explaining it meant penis/dick or what not. To which was hilarious because he immediately was like "yeah I have been thinking that looks like a dick".

Think that was the first time I'd ever smoked weed with a spouses parent before, but that's what he would do, so even though I don't usually smoke, I figured why not.

Holidays at her dad's place were so much different than I was used to growing up.