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Anon is terminally lonely (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 7 months ago by to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 2 points 7 months ago (4 children)

Idk, I've never been happier than the six months I was dating this girl who's sex drive was almost as high as mine. Never been able to get there on my own and the other aspects of my life have been way better since then. Sadly her mental health was a mess and that relationship didn't last.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (3 children)

    You'd also be 'happy' if you did cocaine for those six months. You are confusing getting high from dopamine hits with happiness.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (2 children)

    All happiness is just dopamine hits. It's all stimulus and chemicals regardless of what's triggering it.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago* (1 child)

    No, it's not. Happiness is the action of self regulation. Happiness is choosing broccoli over a cookie because you know it is better for you. And then later choosing to have the cookie after you've had proper good food.

    Someone tied up to a machine being dosed by chemicals to 'feel happy' would not be happy. Just like drug addicts, and other addicts, who are constantly chasing highs, are not happy people. They are fucking miserable, forever chasing and defining their entire life by those dopamine hits.

    What you are describing is how children are. They would choose the cookie every time, eat cookies all day, get sick and throw up, and then get angry and sullen about it and still do it all over again. Because they have no ability to regulate, they just act in a state of pure dopamine seeking.

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