Well "being a pushover" is the opposite, if you'd relented and let him hit raw then you'd be a pushover. I think you meant "being pushy," isn't English fun lmao.

But also no dude it's not just for babby but also STD, he shouldn't trust you either. On the "no std" nor the "has any form of birth control" tbh, women lie about that (and the no std part) all the time, multiple have lied to me about it and I'm just one dude. Protect yourselves out there.