Oh boy. A ton has changed over the past decade for me. Ten years ago, I was in grad school and living in my parents basement. I had some small internship income and basically no expenses. My spreadsheet for Jan 2016 shows I spent $160 that month and earned $230. I'd started investing the previous year and had a net worth of roughly $40k.

Now I'm married with dual tech income, have a dog, own my house. My spending for last month was roughly $3000. I have expensive hobbies, go on big exotic trips once a year, spoil my dog endlessly,etc. My life is so much fuller than it was back then. My net worth nowadays has crossed the 2 commas club.

Thanks for keeping these going. Just joined and hope more people coming from Reddit can make this more active.

A decade is a long time. I've always been frugal, but I'd say that I've relaxed a bit in some spending as I've approached FI, mostly as it relates to things that make life easier (tools, software, etc.). I'm willing to pay more to make things happen a little faster. But, although spending as gone up more than normal for me, it is still less than my wage has increased.

We went from DINKs renting a place cheaply from family to SI2K owning a home. Spending is up at least 50%.