Find local, likeminded people, who are reliable, fair, reasonable, and pragmatic, and most importantly, not dramatic.

Find ways you can help fill in gaps in those other people's lives, in a mutally beneficial way, not a purely competetive/social status jockeying kind of way, and ways they can help you with yours.

Literally nothing else is more fundamental or more important than that.

We have to rebuild or I guess at this point rediscover what an actual community is.

No other possible 'plan' is going to work without that.