Well sometimes some people don't say directly that they're mad but say things like "I'm annoyed"

by the time someone tells you directly they are annoyed by something you have done, it’s gone past the “ i don’t like it but i’m going to just deal with it” stage.

it's assumed that a woman is always mad at their male partner unless they are actively doing something to make her happy.

it's a relationship trope.

and by mad not really angry, so much as dissatisfied.