It's a good 80/20 split from what I've seen. My brother is the chef (and boy can he cook, lol), also the anxious one, the one who plans, in his relationship and his girl is the no-nonsense, "gets her hands dirty" person. As long as we find someone who complements us we're solid. My wife's pretty easygoing and I'm a maniac underneath, for example. 🤣