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[–] 5 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Feel bad for the kids today, at least older people can remember what hope felt like.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (1 child)

    Meanwhile my parents tells me how much they had to suffer in China and how much things have improved and constantly tells me to "be grateful" because I have more variety of food to eat and "shouldn't be picky about food" and "complaining"

    Also tells me about many people being undocumented and that I "should be grateful for being so lucky of having legal status in the US"

    (I literally never said I was ungrateful lol, but its this constant guilt-trippin every time my mom think I'm "being ungrateful")

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    Boomer Asian parents are materialistic. I always say that they have never gone past Maslow's hierarchy of needs of fulfilling material security needs. They are always in survival mode and are cynical. Asian parents think fulfilling material security of their kids is enough to be considered responsible and loving parents. I can't exactly blame them having this mindset, because post-World War 2 colonial countries haven't had it easy as they emerged poor after independence. Many suffered from dictatorship propped up by either side during the Cold War or experienced internal strife in some ways.

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