Agreed. I like my current job more than the previous one that I put 23 years into, but I have to remind myself to value my time more than I had been. I still put in a lot of hours when I'm knee deep into a project, but it's almost always at my own leisure that I do so. It's a crazy balance of respecting myself while also fighting off the imposter syndrome because the guys in my team are always really supportive because of my experience. It's strange going from a job where I have to defend my actions and choices to a job where I'm inherently trusted.

But yes, if I could go back, I would tell my younger self that my job pays the bills but it's not who I am. Leave the job behind me after hours while doing what I can to do a good job while on the clock.