I rarely get into these sorts of debaters because they're almost always pointless, however a few of the things you said made me want to answer this.
You're completely missing the point for the first argument, people can't choose to fly or kill each other by staring, so if humans were created by God then any flaws in humanity, including but not limited to ability to suffer and cause suffering, is part of God's design that he could have removed. In other words, if God gave people the option to cause harm knowing they would (omniscience, remember) then he's directly responsible for everything bad that happens, it's like a father that gives a sharp knife to a kid and tells him to go run and play with his friends. God could have prevented suffering to begin with, therefore the fact that it exists proves that suffering is part of his plan. If that's the case then yes, you being bullied and your bully being in an abusive home is all done by design, which is very twisted if you think about it.
As for the second argument you admit that things exist outside our universe that can affect it, if that's the case you don't need God to create the Universe, we could be the result of a collision between two extra dimensional rocks. And that's sort of the point of that argument, i.e. that you don't need God to explain the beginning of the Universe because whatever question you have about the origin of the Universe can also be directed at God (e.g. and what caused that) and whatever answer you give using God can also be used for a non-God answer (e.g. extra dimensional causes)