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So... my maternal grandmother was like: "hey you're old enough to be married, you need to find a girlfriend and get married soon"... (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 10 months ago by to c/casualconversation@piefed.social
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Bruh wtf I'm not ready, still depressed af.

My grandmother really want to become a great grandmother that bad

Do y'all get these type of comments?

Wut lol

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I wanna reverse time and be a kid again.

(Yes I do eventually want to start a family, but I really need to fix my depression first)

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[–] [S] 1 point 10 months ago (3 children)

How do people just be "ready" to grow up?

Feels so difficult.

I feel like my mom really fucked up my development with all the intermittent emotional abuse. I still kinda feel like I'm just 18 not twenty-something

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    You don't be ready, you start doing it. Your 20s are the time you're supposed to suck at being an adult.

    If you don't want a partner or kids now that's fine, but now is the time to map out your life plan. And be aware it can take a few years to find a partner that you want to marry and having kids may take time too.

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