Bruh wtf I'm not ready, still depressed af.

My grandmother really want to become a great grandmother that bad

Do y'all get these type of comments?

Wut lol

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I wanna reverse time and be a kid again.

(Yes I do eventually want to start a family, but I really need to fix my depression first)

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[–] 5 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Having a family of your own is a pretty good goal to have in your life.

You will never be in a perfect condition or the perfect situation to start a family. Age, money, health, timing, partner. If only two of these are perfect, you’re already doing pretty well.

Living in the past and wanting to be a kid again is impossible. Accept your present, and live your life. Once you have your own kids, you can revisit everything you loved about your childhood with your own children.

Your depression will not end, if you want to be a child forever.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 10 months ago (3 children)

    How do people just be "ready" to grow up?

    Feels so difficult.

    I feel like my mom really fucked up my development with all the intermittent emotional abuse. I still kinda feel like I'm just 18 not twenty-something

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    You don't be ready, you start doing it. Your 20s are the time you're supposed to suck at being an adult.

    If you don't want a partner or kids now that's fine, but now is the time to map out your life plan. And be aware it can take a few years to find a partner that you want to marry and having kids may take time too.

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