▲ 120 ▼ Got my first "I hate you" today. Another parenting badge for the belt. (lemmy.zip) submitted 10 months ago by 93maddie94@lemmy.zip to c/parenting@lemmy.world 39 comments fedilink hide all child comments Apparently making her stop playing to get ready for bed (15 minutes past the normal time I might add) is worth loathing of the highest degree. Threenagers.
[+] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world -26 points 10 months ago (8 children) I'm glad I never had kids. permalink fedilink source hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] barkingspiders@infosec.pub 9 points 10 months ago (6 children) I'm sorry for the down votes, I don't think your comment deserves that. If you feel glad you didn't have children then I'm glad you didn't. People are allowed to want different things. Children are not an easy life choice to see through and there shouldn't be any shame in knowing you don't want that. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] khannie@lemmy.world 50 points 10 months ago (3 children) It's a parenting community. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] barkingspiders@infosec.pub 5 points 10 months ago (2 children) I'm trying to advocate for an open and inclusive parenting community, their comment wasn't mean or insulting or anything that justifies a negative reaction As a parent I've certainly had days where I regretted having kids, I don't begrudge other people sharing similar sentiments permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] khannie@lemmy.world 42 points 10 months ago (1 child) I think if you go to a parenting community and say you're glad you never had kids you should expect downvoting. Nobody was being mean. It added nothing. Of course they're free to be glad they didn't have kids, I'm not arguing against that, but this doesn't seem like the best place to express that and the downvotes bear witness to that IMO. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 18 points 10 months ago* Going to go with the old “it contributes nothing to the conversation“ rule. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world -4 points 10 months ago (1 child) It's okay. A little weird on a post where someone's talking about what an asshole their kid is, but no worries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ShrimpCurler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 10 months ago I think I'm glad you never had kids if you're calling that one an asshole permalink fedilink source parent [–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today -4 points 10 months ago Me too,bud permalink fedilink source parent
[–] barkingspiders@infosec.pub 9 points 10 months ago (6 children) I'm sorry for the down votes, I don't think your comment deserves that. If you feel glad you didn't have children then I'm glad you didn't. People are allowed to want different things. Children are not an easy life choice to see through and there shouldn't be any shame in knowing you don't want that. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] khannie@lemmy.world 50 points 10 months ago (3 children) It's a parenting community. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] barkingspiders@infosec.pub 5 points 10 months ago (2 children) I'm trying to advocate for an open and inclusive parenting community, their comment wasn't mean or insulting or anything that justifies a negative reaction As a parent I've certainly had days where I regretted having kids, I don't begrudge other people sharing similar sentiments permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] khannie@lemmy.world 42 points 10 months ago (1 child) I think if you go to a parenting community and say you're glad you never had kids you should expect downvoting. Nobody was being mean. It added nothing. Of course they're free to be glad they didn't have kids, I'm not arguing against that, but this doesn't seem like the best place to express that and the downvotes bear witness to that IMO. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 18 points 10 months ago* Going to go with the old “it contributes nothing to the conversation“ rule. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world -4 points 10 months ago (1 child) It's okay. A little weird on a post where someone's talking about what an asshole their kid is, but no worries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ShrimpCurler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 10 months ago I think I'm glad you never had kids if you're calling that one an asshole permalink fedilink source parent
[–] khannie@lemmy.world 50 points 10 months ago (3 children) It's a parenting community. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] barkingspiders@infosec.pub 5 points 10 months ago (2 children) I'm trying to advocate for an open and inclusive parenting community, their comment wasn't mean or insulting or anything that justifies a negative reaction As a parent I've certainly had days where I regretted having kids, I don't begrudge other people sharing similar sentiments permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] khannie@lemmy.world 42 points 10 months ago (1 child) I think if you go to a parenting community and say you're glad you never had kids you should expect downvoting. Nobody was being mean. It added nothing. Of course they're free to be glad they didn't have kids, I'm not arguing against that, but this doesn't seem like the best place to express that and the downvotes bear witness to that IMO. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 18 points 10 months ago* Going to go with the old “it contributes nothing to the conversation“ rule. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] barkingspiders@infosec.pub 5 points 10 months ago (2 children) I'm trying to advocate for an open and inclusive parenting community, their comment wasn't mean or insulting or anything that justifies a negative reaction As a parent I've certainly had days where I regretted having kids, I don't begrudge other people sharing similar sentiments permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] khannie@lemmy.world 42 points 10 months ago (1 child) I think if you go to a parenting community and say you're glad you never had kids you should expect downvoting. Nobody was being mean. It added nothing. Of course they're free to be glad they didn't have kids, I'm not arguing against that, but this doesn't seem like the best place to express that and the downvotes bear witness to that IMO. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 18 points 10 months ago* Going to go with the old “it contributes nothing to the conversation“ rule. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] khannie@lemmy.world 42 points 10 months ago (1 child) I think if you go to a parenting community and say you're glad you never had kids you should expect downvoting. Nobody was being mean. It added nothing. Of course they're free to be glad they didn't have kids, I'm not arguing against that, but this doesn't seem like the best place to express that and the downvotes bear witness to that IMO. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 18 points 10 months ago* Going to go with the old “it contributes nothing to the conversation“ rule. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 18 points 10 months ago* Going to go with the old “it contributes nothing to the conversation“ rule. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world -4 points 10 months ago (1 child) It's okay. A little weird on a post where someone's talking about what an asshole their kid is, but no worries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ShrimpCurler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 10 months ago I think I'm glad you never had kids if you're calling that one an asshole permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ShrimpCurler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 10 months ago I think I'm glad you never had kids if you're calling that one an asshole permalink fedilink source parent