Idk, I moved to Texas to be with my wife early in our relationship from Ohio. Went fluidly, mostly. I really think its a coin flip, or being having firmer locational roots. I wouldn't have left all of that behind like she did. Like naw, fuck that life is more than just your partner, even post marriage.

All that being said, its always hard to tell who a person really is, until they finally mask off one day. Either that or she had poor judgement in people. Sad either way, fucking rough way to learn a lesson.