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[–] 160 points 10 months ago* (8 children)

How about we normalize being flamboyant and colorful for straight adult cisgender men instead of re-enforcing the idea that any deviation from being a boring frumpy dump of an old man means they must be some type of queer. Isn't this just re-enforcing outdated gender norms?

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  • [–] 13 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    idk, i read this as a joke about how being emo isn't accepted once you're past a certain age, and how that age is higher for women. don't get me wrong i do think straight cis men should be allowed to be flamboyant and colourful, but i don't think the meme is against that

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago

    Amazing mental gymnastics to get a read of 'boy become a woman' that isn't trans.

    I'm also pulling for depolicing gender for everyone, but also a silly laugh about which subcultures have eggs that come out faster.

    I love you emo boys that became women. I love you emo boys that became goth men. I love you faahion cryptid enbies.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    Hell yeah!

    I am not flamboyant myself. Along with being a strongly introverted AuDHD computer nerd, I am a straight adult cisgender man with a long beard and literally wearing a red & green flannel shirt right now. I've been trying to wear natural fibers lately and it's 100% cotton coziness.

    The frumpy dumpy path so many in my demo seem to assume is their destiny can fuck alllll the way off. We need people to share their interests and be flamboyant if that's what's in their heart!

    God forbid we allow a spark of joy in our hearts to reach out and improve the existence of another human, right? Especially when we could have spent more time being good worker bees and consumers of product and content, so that a few sociopaths could watch a number go up and wait for the contentment that will never come.

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