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[–] 160 points 10 months ago* (8 children)

How about we normalize being flamboyant and colorful for straight adult cisgender men instead of re-enforcing the idea that any deviation from being a boring frumpy dump of an old man means they must be some type of queer. Isn't this just re-enforcing outdated gender norms?

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  • [–] 13 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    idk, i read this as a joke about how being emo isn't accepted once you're past a certain age, and how that age is higher for women. don't get me wrong i do think straight cis men should be allowed to be flamboyant and colourful, but i don't think the meme is against that

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago

    Amazing mental gymnastics to get a read of 'boy become a woman' that isn't trans.

    I'm also pulling for depolicing gender for everyone, but also a silly laugh about which subcultures have eggs that come out faster.

    I love you emo boys that became women. I love you emo boys that became goth men. I love you faahion cryptid enbies.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    Hell yeah!

    I am not flamboyant myself. Along with being a strongly introverted AuDHD computer nerd, I am a straight adult cisgender man with a long beard and literally wearing a red & green flannel shirt right now. I've been trying to wear natural fibers lately and it's 100% cotton coziness.

    The frumpy dumpy path so many in my demo seem to assume is their destiny can fuck alllll the way off. We need people to share their interests and be flamboyant if that's what's in their heart!

    God forbid we allow a spark of joy in our hearts to reach out and improve the existence of another human, right? Especially when we could have spent more time being good worker bees and consumers of product and content, so that a few sociopaths could watch a number go up and wait for the contentment that will never come.

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  • [–] 50 points 10 months ago (8 children)

    Counterpoint: Brandon Lee as The Crow

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  • [–] 16 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    Damn, just looked it up and he died during that film's shooting. That sucks, he fuckin nailed that role.

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  • [–] 12 points 10 months ago

    I had no idea people watched The Crow without knowing that. His death was such a huge part of the discussion around that movie back in 1994. I just assumed that context would always follow it, no matter how long it's been.

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  • [+] 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)
  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    No he didn't. Both of their deaths forced the movies they were working on to be rewritten, but Bruce died of a pre-existing condition combined with painkillers, while Brandon got shot.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    he didn't die in an on-set accident he died in a specific type of on-set accident is not a great argument

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    [–] 16 points 10 months ago

    I mean, Robert Smith exists

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  • [–] 12 points 10 months ago

    I disagree.

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