I wish I would see any of my friends monthly. I haven't seen my best friend in like 4 months or so.

Weekly meetups with 3+ friends, that's something you can do before you have a wife, kids and a job.

10 years ago, I had a really large social circle, with a group of ~15 people who met 1-4x per week. That was all fine and easy when the only commitment was university and part-time jobbing. But with a full-time job and kids, all that just disappears.

A week only has 168h. With work, sleep and family, there's not a lot left.