I'm not the other person (merc@sh.itjust.works), you have me confused. I'm just a third party who was watching the debate unfold. I had not previously interacted with you here on the fediverse or responded in the chain.

I fully agree with you respecting yourself and setting a boundary. I've found myself doing the same with certain commenters. I just was speaking to my curiosity and desire to see more because I felt like I was seeing some points unfold from both of you that I resonated with, even if I gravitate towards seeing your side more than merc's.