I mean...

The weird sexism/girl idolation in a lot of anime is something. Even in more 'grounded' shows. It makes my skin crawl whenever I try anime, hence I think Cowboy Beebop and a Ghibli movie or two are the only things I finished.

"Western" animesque animation (Arcane, DCAU, Avatar, Dragon's Blood...) doesn't seem to suffer from that as much.