▲ 1112 ▼ Yup. Not fun. (lemmy.dbzer0.com) submitted 1 year ago by Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 85 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[+] fossilesque@mander.xyz 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago Goddamn, do I feel this. The urge for people-pleasing is real. Establishing boundaries that respect your limits is hard. I keep hearing the voice of ignorant neurotypicals throughout my life, echoing in my head, "You don't need a break." "You're just lazy." "Answer, answer now! You must speak!" No! I can say no! I can say, "I need some time alone," or, "I'll get back to you tomorrow." Acknowledging that I have limits IS OKAY. MOST PEOPLE WILL RESPECT THAT. Even if my own freaking parents can't. permalink fedilink source parent [–] lmuel@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (3 children) What's "dx"? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [+] fossilesque@mander.xyz 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lmuel@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) I see, guess we don't use that abbreviation where I'm from. Thanks! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply)
[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago Goddamn, do I feel this. The urge for people-pleasing is real. Establishing boundaries that respect your limits is hard. I keep hearing the voice of ignorant neurotypicals throughout my life, echoing in my head, "You don't need a break." "You're just lazy." "Answer, answer now! You must speak!" No! I can say no! I can say, "I need some time alone," or, "I'll get back to you tomorrow." Acknowledging that I have limits IS OKAY. MOST PEOPLE WILL RESPECT THAT. Even if my own freaking parents can't. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] lmuel@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (3 children) What's "dx"? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [+] fossilesque@mander.xyz 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lmuel@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) I see, guess we don't use that abbreviation where I'm from. Thanks! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply)
[+] fossilesque@mander.xyz 1 point 1 year ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] lmuel@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) I see, guess we don't use that abbreviation where I'm from. Thanks! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply)
[–] lmuel@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 child) I see, guess we don't use that abbreviation where I'm from. Thanks! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment load more comments (1 reply)
