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[–] 25 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

Maybe I'm not fully awake, but I don't understand how that stat could be calculated. How the hell would anyone know the kinks at play in a representative subset of all abusive relationship that have ended in murder?

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    As I mention in another reply the stat refers to abuse not kink play. Likely polled abuse/DV victims and then followed up with them, but that just a guess. I’ll link the study later if I can track it down.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago

    Oh yeah non consensual choking is a "make a plan to get out now" situation.

    In kink I'm actually still generally against it, but in a "this is way higher risk profile than a lot of people think" way. Banning it won't help, proper kink educational resources will.

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