One guy sitting in a bunker with a red button is only possible because of society and our cumulative technology.
I think you missed my point, what I meant is that some having more power than others is a product of modern society, not an inherent value one is born with. So big power imbalances only exist because we let it be possible. We only let it be possible by convincing enough people that’s the only way we can have a functioning society.
I actually think that used to be true until the last few decades.