Really makes me try and catch myself complaining and just to stop it.

A lot of conversations revolve around 'dont you just hate this one process, or people like x, or y never works' and it's always weary and exhausting, but much more so since I became the tech guy and realize how much people default to stories like that when they have nothing else to say about your profession.

If you want to say 'ive noticed that x never seems to work properly and I'm wondering why it couldn't be fixed with z' and are genuinely curious I'm more than happy to problem solve and/or explain complexities, but most people never want to hear a complicated answer about systemic forces.