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[–] 4 points 1 year ago (6 children)

From what I could witness, most likely the "first abuser" is most likely a close family member, either the (step-)father or some uncle or grandfather - people who themselves believe in such values they call "traditional".

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

    Yeah, but also (step-)mother or some aunt or grandmother, maybe even girlfriend. Not only men are pushing these "traditional" values.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    maybe in a ultra conservative household. but more than not its the man of the house that influences the male children more.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    In my life, I made a very different experience.

    And I believe:

    Sexist beliefs, traditions and norms are not only held up by men and ultra conservative women. We all do it together and as long as we act that we don't do it as a collective, we will continue to fail young man and women and turn more people into toxic sexist idiots.

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