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on manosphere and incel culture (media.piefed.social)
submitted 1 year ago by to c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world
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Screenshot of a post by user "former-incel" on Tumblr. The post discusses how phrases like “you will die alone, no one will ever want you” are used to manipulate and harm people’s self-esteem. It argues that while this phrase is often used by abusive partners against women, the manosphere uses the same tactic on men, especially shorter men and even those of average height by convincing them they’re inherently unlovable. The author compares this to emotional abuse, saying it’s a way to make men dependent on the manosphere for validation and community.
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[–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

On the other side, it never occurred to me that I'm short until I got on the original craigslist.org, back when it was Bay Area-only. The number 5'10" was absolutely ubiquitous. If I searched the w4m personals, it'd match about half of the postings. Searching for 6' matched quite a few more.

Some of the dating sites back in the day allowed people to specify their requirements in a partner. I noticed that the taller the woman, the taller her height requirements, of course. But also, the shorter the woman, generally the taller she wanted. It seemed like the minima was a height requirement of about 5'8" for men. (This was the Midwestern U.S.; results may have varied elsewhere.)

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