sadly it's hard to take back a term.

shitheads missuse the term

normal people then avoid such term

now it's a bad term

any attempt at reclaiming it will be suspicious as if someone just wants an excuse to use that word.

it's mostly a slut thing.

but with slurs it's "easier" to reclaim, as the community affected by it, can choose to use it.

in this case it's different.