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[–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

"Boys will be boys" was always about getting into foolish hijinks. It has been co-opted by shitheads to excuse abhorrent behavior. And every time it happens there needs to be significant pushback from from folks to take it back from the bastards.

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  • sadly it's hard to take back a term.

    shitheads missuse the term

    normal people then avoid such term

    now it's a bad term

    any attempt at reclaiming it will be suspicious as if someone just wants an excuse to use that word.

    it's mostly a slut thing.

    but with slurs it's "easier" to reclaim, as the community affected by it, can choose to use it.

    in this case it's different.

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