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Some helpful links:

The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Rainbow Railroad // A non-profit international humans rights organization helping at risk LGBTQ+ people relocate to safety.

Support Hotlines:

The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.

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What is something you wish cis people knew? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 year ago by dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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What is something you learned or experienced from being trans that you wish you knew pre-transition, or that you wish cis people knew?

I'll go first: the temperature differences when going from testosterone-dominance to estrogen-dominance is not just real but significant, my body just puts out less heat and I feel colder much easier now even when otherwise maintaining a high metabolism, eating in excess, etc.

It may have just been my trans denial before, but I really wanted to believe that the difference was not that great and I was wrong.

What's something you wish people knew?

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[–] LycoriseBelladonna@ani.social 1 point 1 year ago

Most people (including the trans people themselves) view transfem persons as sexually fetishistic way, aka "chicks with dicks" and some of them literally say shit like "trans woman are better, cuz no pregnancy and periods + male level sex drive". If only they knew that estrogens are one of libido killers that make transfems less interested into relationships and don't having boners. So entire thing is basically: "Trans woman with a dick? Woah, marry me and rail me down in the ass/vagina! Trans woman with neovagina? Eww, wtf - go away with you rotting axe wound!"

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