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    • Being trans isn't about gender stereotypes. There are plenty of GNC trans people.
    • Gender is a social construct and it doesn't have to be sexist when consented to. No woman owes feminism to shave their head and wear cargo shorts. If gender truly is a choice then how could it be sexist?
    • Some people feel strongly man or woman, some feel strongly neither or both, some don't feel strongly any way. That's just a fact of life and no amount of social theorizing will invalidate those people's feelings.
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    Fallacies upon fallacies.

    The right to self-actualization is not equivalent to hatred nor an enforced social order of arbitrary and repressive rules. You don't get to pull the "it's just feelings" card to defend bigotry.

    Gender characteristics are not the same thing as stereotypes and either way none of that is inherently sexist. Characteristics just are. The weighted sum of gender characteristics is how we perceive gender outwardly – which is not necessarily correlated to internal perception of gender. Sexism only happens because some people use that outwards perception of gender to make ill judgment and enforce unfair rules. That's on them, not the person being perceived.

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    Don't make the mistake of starting from the "enlightened centrist" hypothesis that everyone's a little bit right and working backwards to a justification why an absolute moral position is supposedly hypocritical.

    This isn't about my feelings, this is about a right to self-actualization.

    And you clearly didn't understand my point if you are getting hung up on this idea of gender stereotypes. I could be 150 cm with humongous pendulous tits, hair down to my BBL, a miniskirt and a crop-top with my nipples poking through, 30 cm stillettos, Marilyn Monroe's face, enough makeup to smother a small child, and the brattiest attitude you've ever seen in your life. That still would not give anyone the right to be sexist. You're the one bringing sexism into this like it's somehow inextricable from the experience of gender.

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