I decided against getting one, but it is still aprreciated, should I or someone I know consider to get one in the future :) Thank you.

Hey I guess its a bit late to answer but I honestly love Wivov.Originally was buying gc2b but they gone horribly down with thebquality so I switched to Wivov like 2 years ago and I still use them and they are still doing their job nicely. Also the material is super comfortable

Yes I do!! Hey!!

Hi Jay (do you go by Jay primarily? Lowk think I like that one best)

Helloooo!!!

Hey Mikey. Hope you're doing well all this time later. I dont know you but I want you know that I consider you a brother, even through all this distance and time.

Transdalf 🏳️‍⚧️🧙‍♂️

Annnnnd now this will be what I think of whenever I rewatch this scene from that masterpiece.

very satisfying play on words

Sunless Skies has the Incautious Driver who's enby and the Fortunate Navigator who's a trans guy. For both it doesn't feel tacked on but doesn't define them either, which is cool

For those into (not porny) dating sims, Date Everything very probably has both. (I have only discovered a very small part of the characters for now, so I have not verified it.) Warning though: every NPC in this game is an anthropomorphised domestic thing (objects, appliances, dust, etc).

Stardew Valley's expansion mod Ridgeside Village instroduces a ftm character. I will not say his name for spoiler reasons, but he's quite a touching character IMHO. (Well, although unoffical, he is a befriendable and romanceable Stardew Valley character after all.)

Not 100% sure on the validity but I read somewhere that Party Girl (one of the villager NPCs you can build a house for) from Terraria is trans.

Yes. Sorry. I confused ftm and mtf

Correct. Bugger, I confused the two

• Birdo from doki doki panic and the Mario franchise is ftm
• Vivian from Paper Mario the 1000 year door is ftm

Aren't both of these characters MTF?

Damnit yeah why didn't I think of Deltarune and Undertale? I play those games for blåhaj's sake

I thought Birdo from Mario was mtf?

Played Saint's Row 2 waayyy in the past and totally forgot about those sliders lol. I mostly was busy landing a helicopter on a rooftop and pushing people off just for funsies to observe their splatters.

• Kris from Deltarune and Frisk from Undertale are both non-binary, though they never tell us their agabs (fair)
• Kirby, while using he/him pronouns in the english speaking world has always been genderless and even hangs out with the girls in a nintendo promotional panel where a bunch of nintendo's female characters bake together. He is also seen in the equivilent nintendo boys content
• The player character in hollowknight is some sort of eldrich thing pretending to be a child, so falls into the genderless monster trope
• Cyberpunk famously allows you to create a custom character who is male, female or some combination of the two
• Saint's Row 2 has a gender slider where all the way to the left makes your boobs bigger and all the way to the right makes your dick bigger. I can only assume right in the middle to mean non binary.
• Every saints row game between SR2 and SR2022 has plastic surgery clinics where you can change your gender pretty much at will as long as you have the money. SR2022 replaces with a pause menu item which is better for convenience but less fun from a worldbuilding standpoint.

I couldn't say for sure, but that seems like a really clever idea to me!

26 is when i came out. what's up with that meme?

anyways, i think seeing yourself as "cis" is... idk about normal, but it happens. the thought "i am a man" is sort of implied to be "i am a cis man". what i'm trying to say is, i get it

but the snag in there is that you begin to associate cisness with masculinity. men have low pitched voices, bigger muscles, etc. a lot of stuff provided by elevated levels of testosterone

and the truth of the matter is that, men are more complex and nuanced than that. there are men with endocrine disorders, men who just have bad luck in the gym or don't like working out. and of course, there are... trans men

and that means there are men who are short, men who sound like a girl, men who have feminine sexual characteristics. men who are perceived as women or non-binary

none of these things make you less of a man. being a man does not come with a guaranteed type of body

and you might say, that doesn't help with the dysphoria. and i could write about how a voice that is perceived as masculine does not necessarily have to be deep, but the way the voice resonates in your head and the way words are spoken, the rate they're spoken at, the places they're emphasized, are different when one is trying to sound masculine specifically, to help you

(this is about all i know about the subject, but should give you a good starting point for studying how men speak)

but the point is that, you're not having these problems because you're a girl, or because you're invalid because your body is different

there are, shitty, yes, but relatively normal problems to have if you're a man in an AFAB body

it's still going to suck, you're still going to be dysphoric and being misgendered is still going to suck

the point i'm trying to make, i guess, is that, if the entire world is going to have trouble perceiving you as a man, do yourself the favor of at least seeing yourself as a man

separate the concept of yourself, as a man, from what the world perceives you to be. and expand your concept of what a man is, so that it includes you

I have and I'm gonna look into getting on it.

victory scars!

Ah, right. The reason is because sometimes I'd feel like a girl but I think it was moreso dysphoria repression.

I can't know what's going on inside your head, but it doesn't seem like you've actually given any reason why you think you might be genderfluid. You just sound like a guy.

That said, if you do feel more like a girl or some other gender later on in life, it's totally okay to change how you identify. It doesn't have to be rigid. (But of course, it's also okay if it does stay the same.)

Labels exist to help you express your identity, not to define who you are. You have plenty of time to experiment, try out new labels and see if you think they fit. And if they don't seem to fit, that's okay too.