[–] 9 points 1 month ago

Theres a certain comfort in owning the game and hoping to play it. At least that's a tiny value I get out of the stream library.

Although I've mostly stopped buying in sales. I've resolved to pay full price whenever I am ready to install and play the game that instant. So far I've hardly spent anything.

Or better yet, if you like doing this, then get into emulation. Spend hours and days setting up emulators, front end, ROMs, etc and get a library far too large to ever play..... And then ignore that for free.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    There should be a law stating that you need a minimum number of hours using a subscription before you can be billed for it. At a minimum they should tell you how many hours you're using it each month.

    I would genuinely sub to 3 streaming services, xbox live and a gym if I knew I wouldn't get billed unless I used it.

    Unless it's a genuine commitment (e.g. my baseball team) there should be zero cost for zero use.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Generally those recurring costs are covered by large donors or governments. They may even simply be given a space to use without having to pay anything for it, and by relying mostly on volunteers they can keep overhead extremely low so that donations go straight to purchasing supplies or paying for contract work (vet surgeries, for example). Some of them are even run out of a person’s house, as I’ve seen with a rabbit rescue.

    A woman’s shelter may need a few staff but they definitely do not need full time professionals such as doctors, nurses, or counsellors. Those services can be provided via donations or other charities. While I’ve never been to a women’s shelter (I’m not a woman) I have benefited from charity-provided counselling at times when I could not afford to pay for it out of pocket.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    That is the biggest problem.

    I changed the Netflix subscription from 3 screens to 1 because no one was watching it. No one noticed for 3 months, then suddenly two people wanted to watch different Netflix content at the same time and I was the biggest criminal ever!

    I haven’t told them that UniFi monitors network traffic and there are still whole months that no one watches Netflix because then I will be accused of spying on them. (Which I technically am, but since I pay the Internet and streaming bills…)

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    I avoid subscription fatigue by not subscribing (unless it's a utility).

    My policy is to refuse all subscriptions outside of 1 MMO of my choice. I can only subscribe to 1 at a time, though.

    I pirate everything else. It's been very easy and more convenient than actually subscribing since my friends can actually watch stuff with me and there's no "household limits".

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I have no issues with subscriptions, but people need to remember YOU ARE IN CONTROL, ensure it provides you value.

    I have Kagi, Ente, Proton. I consistently evaluate other options, comparing it against self hosting.

    Apply this to netflix, if it doesn't provide you value or they up the price, it's okay - You can cancel and look elsewhere...

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    They don't do this maliciously though or to increase shareholder value like Disney. Charities are genuinely exhausted with fluctuating monthly income dependent on what's in the current news cycle. They can't plan how many help requests they can accept this month if they don't know how much they get next month.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    I don't have a subscription fatigue, but I do have subscription anxiety because I do not have a stable income, so I never know if I run out of money next week or next month.

    I used to "subscribe" (set up monthly autopayment donations) to Signal messenger, animal shelters, mental health for veterans in Ukraine, and paid membership in local ecoactivist group; did this because non-profits benefit from recurring donations more. But I had to cancel all of that too.

    So right now I am at 0 digital subscriptions (no streaming, no premium, no AI, no memberships etc.)

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I've gone all-in.

    My source of fatigue is now maintaining updates to my own jellyfin, mail, webdav/carddav, wordpress, xmpp, backups and whatever else I'm selfhosting to escape this hell.

    Then the wife goes out and gets Netflix and Disney+ anyway.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    No. The charity muggers in my country come around to my door, or meet me on the street, and they will not take a one-off donation. They want you to go for an ongoing monthly subscription of direct debit from my bank account or credit card that requires time and effort on my part to alter or cancel.

    And while they are not the main problem, they are a symptom of the subscription epidemic. When I cannot simply give them 50 bucks because they do not have the means (or willingness) to process it, that is a definite sign that subscriptions have gone too far.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago*

    My recurring bills, in the order of decreasing cost

    • Taxes
    • Rent
    • Electricity
    • Water
    • Hetzner VPS
    • Home internet
    • Mobile

    And I'm planning to cut out rent (will be replaced with property tax and maintenance tho) and the hetzner VPS within the next year, because it feels like too much already. I don't know how people pay for like a dozen things every month.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 month ago

    You can tell your bank and subscription provider to figure it out between themselves and leave you out of it.

    Do you trust any bill-sender enough to do that? I don't.

    Just another reason to go to the dark side.

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