cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/53983162

I know a lot of people hate them, it's fashionable to hate them in the same way as It's fashionable to say "oh I can't do Maths" (nothing against my brothers-in-neurodiversity)

I bloody love a spreadsheet. I've worked on some crackers over the years. They're more art than science.. The presentation.. The innovation.. Learning a new function is like learning a new technique... They're never finished or perfect, you just have to stop making them one day and share them with the world.

I will die on this hill. Spreadsheets are art.

Edit : is this supposed to be an unpopular opinion generally or amongst the nerds of Lemmy? 😁

This is not a puritanical issue. I have no problem with porn in its place in life.

I have no desire to control anyone else's body, to shame or judge anyone for sharing themselves online or elsewhere.

Even if I feel there are unanswered questions that our society has not really tackled yet with the speed of change the Internet created, I'm still broadly ambivalent about porn.

As someone with a background in studying historical social attitudes especially around gender, sex and equality we've taken a step forwards I believe, but with more to do.

But I just don't have any interest in seeing stranger's genitals. Genitals can be a lot of fun of course, I have the superpower of enjoying whatever I find in a partner's pants.

I just don't think the fun part is looking at them. When I see a lady spreading her legs in a pose of "check this out" I'm left cold. Yes. Very nice. Gonna keep scrolling.

If I am seeking out porn I'd much prefer something with dignity, make it erotic over explicit.

I think finding an unannounced vulva in my Lemmy feed is a little like an unsolicited dick pic, except it's not aimed at me.

The photos where she's spreading her labia make even less sense to me. Yes, it's a hole. I know how they work. Unless you're hiding something up there that's not the interesting part, and if you are that's not arrousing, just entertaining!

I'm working on the assumption that these things are popular just because of the prevalence. Be funny to find out that this is a normal perspective and those people are sharing their cocks and fannies for a niche audience.