More the strong quiet type

That’s a no for me. It sounds impossible to moderate and unfortunately that always leads to less to fun and more towards actual crimes

Meet up as if you don’t know each other. Show up to a bar/event separate. Flirt all night and hook up. If you’re down for a little risk, the hook up can be semi public. Then you head home separately

Not sure I’d want them to tell me. The idea of it is fun, but also gives me anxiety.

Here, just quiet

Get a good wedge pillow. It allows for fun positions without the physical exertion or discomfort