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The narcissist’s smirk is a subtle but telling expression that occurs when a narcissist experiences pleasure from manipulating or deceiving someone.

For narcissists, the smirk usually reflects contempt, which is a deep-seated disdain or lack of respect towards others. For narcissists contempt is tied to their belief in their own superiority. They view others who do not serve their needs as worthless or beneath them, showing a complete disregard for how their actions impact those around them.

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[–] 83 points 1 year ago* (21 children)

Article goes on to say the same smirk is also a non-narcissist's sign of satisfaction at seeing justice served.

So will you be the Psych 101 student who is suddenly a psychoanalyst and labels people because they smirk, or will you understand that something you saw on lemmy doesn't equip you to judge anyone?

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  • [+] [S] -20 points 1 year ago (17 children)

    A smirk is not the same as, what we'll call here, the narcissist smirk. So no, not the same.

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  • [–] 36 points 1 year ago* (16 children)

    Found the Psych 101 student.

    I would defy anyone to distinguish between the smirk the article describes - "a half-smile where one side of the lip lifts slightly" from the google definition of smirk - "a facial expression characterized by a subtle, often one-sided, upward curving of the mouth, often without showing teeth."

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Hmm.. both definitions mention one side of the lip, but not which side. We can only hope that the good smirks are all on one side of the mouth, whereas the bad smirks are all on the other side.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Better yet, how about those of us who smirks or half smile because we had bad teeth when we were younger?

    Growing up poor with no dental visits or appropriate dental care products and trash food being bought = narcissist now?

    This is such a subjective quality to judge its just asinine.

    The dude just needed to publish SOMETHING for his grant yall. Lol

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    "I read about psychology on the internet, so I can read peoples' minds"

    • You
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    All doctors have degrees, yet nobody with common sense would say trust all doctors without doubt. Some would even say a doctor that tries to diagnose people through a few comments online are definitely in the category of those that shouldn't be trusted.

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  • [+] [S] -6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    It's interesting that you engage in attacks and then ask for a discussion. (I wonder if me saying that will cause you to again say found the psych 101 student.)

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    I was wrong to call you the Psych 101 student, since you weren't doing the Psych 101 student behavior I described. "They're not the same thing" is more of a typical social media comment from someone who simply likes to argue, as you're continuing to do. Not interested.

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    [–] 47 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    The thing about narcissists is they are never as clever or subtle as they think they are. They get away with everything because their behaviors dysregulate decent people and make it easier to manipulate them. And while it’s obvious, in these little pleased gestures and exaggerated emotions, it still hurts to be manipulated and used. We seek closure to these events, they use that motivation to string the victims along. Terrible disorder.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago

    And yet, for some reason, in our system it seems that narcissism is almost a prerequisite to becoming the leader of large publicly traded companies or indeed an entire nation.

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  • [–] 45 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    This goes right up there with stock chart technical analysis. "It's definitely this. Though it can also be this. Or that. And it depends on the person. And the context. And...

    It's so messy/noisy with variables, stuff like this just gives people false confidence that they know who/what someone is or what something represents. Psuedoscience

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    [–] 15 points 1 year ago

    Here is what it looks like, in case you were wondering

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago

    seen this with jesse watters, he always make that sneering or smirk when he does his segment. and it was same with some low-level right wingers on yotube.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I literally just learned this in a Ted talk that youtube fed me yesterday or the day before. Here's a fantastic example of that smirk.

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    You are very lucky not to have experienced this firsthand. I'm not so lucky, and I can tell you it is real. They get off on deception and power over others, but that's also their weakness - it's a compulsion. While they imagine themselves to be masters of manipulation and control, the urge to gaslight and fuck with people is so great that they typically change jobs, locations and social groups pretty often, depending on how sophisticated (or lucky) they are. They get caught because they can't help themselves. If they see an opportunity to manipulate someone, they will take it - they overestimate their ability to fool people.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I learned this one a few year ago, the hard way.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Ah fuck I think I'm a narcissist.

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    [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Oh no. I smile all the time. I guess I'll die

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