Step 1: stop posting garbage

There are no other steps.

You're posting random chat stuff in a meme community. Look up a casual conversation community. I think you'll have more of the response you're looking for there.

Don't take it personaly. This just isn't the community to be posting your little life updates in. In my opinion, you'd get better engagement over on mastodon. Plenty of neuro-diverse peeps and it's generally better suited to micro-blogging then Lemmy.

Does it really matter? Do you lose monetary value in your life? Do you lose social credits in your life? When things that don't matter happen, simply try not giving a shit.

Don't mind me, I'm just piling on.