I've "started" the process of quitting multiple times, only to fall back into old habits. The issue is that I don't really feel any hope of meeting someone, and right now I kinda need to masturbate just to fall asleep. I can do it without porn at least. I have a silicone stroker toy but it's large enough and makes enough noise that I can't hide it well (cuz, you know, at some point I gotta take it from my room to the bathroom and then back to clean it). If I lived on my own I'd use it more, but that's not really feasible right now.

Good band. I bought The Money Store on CD.

An acquired taste. But I suggest you start with The Money Store album. That's a good starting point. If you're into that then give Ex-Military a try. You might get into Death Grips that way.

Deathgrip is a real problem, and i think it's pretty common. Regardless of what can be seen on the internet, I imagine most people are crankin one out as fast as possible in most day-to-day life. Before you have to be somewhere or have an event, or after, or you just have limited private time because of spouse, family, roommates, whatever. Deathgrip is an easy step to take to get it done quick.

The problem is, once you get used to it, it can really mess up your sensitivity (along with normal aging, health, etc affecting it). Once I figured that out, I started being more deliberately gentle. Looser grip, lube of some kind being a must, more playful strokes and touches. I quit caring if I finished before I ran out of personal time. Just made it when I finally did cum, that much better.

Highly recommend getting some vibe toys too. There's this sleeve that attaches to a hitachi that I dont even move once I'm in, and the vibrations hit juuuuust right. I suppose that isn't hands free, but it's a huge win for my sensitivity personally.